#Gehraiyaan team officially released just three videos, and the expectation for this film is exceptional!
Even people who don’t watch Hindi movies and don’t know the Hindi language are counting the days.
Is it because of the intimate scene?
Is it because of the talented cast & splendid crew?
Is it because of the technical team with soulful music and stunning visuals?
It is because people find it challenging to lead a happy and healthy relationship?
My answer to witness Gehraiyaan has changed, or am I changing?
I think I have!
Love is neither created nor destroyed!
We can never form bonding with someone on our own, and it naturally happens.
We can’t erase a few people and our memories about them.
People who understand the other person will stay if things go well, and they split for critical reasons.
Love and marriage is so simple if they both
understand each other,
communicate all things,
care and support unconditionally, and
be there for each other, even if one of them is feeling extremely low mentally/physically!
People make relationships hard by having
complications & miscommunications,
not understanding and accepting the other person for who they are,
not giving their time and space,
not value their feelings and emotions!
I am no relationship adviser, nor I can define love or relationship.
I am just a normal 90s kid who got manipulated in the name of a relationship despite accepting them when they said I’m a celibate.
I have no right to complain about the person because I gave them complete control of my emotions and feelings.
But I have to thank them for making me the person I’m today and making me survive the most challenging times by myself.
My only mistake is that I blindly trusted them, and I got lost when I found it was all a big lie.
They gave things no one would have done in this generation. The only difference is that they know marriage won’t happen between us from day one, and I surrendered myself for her one word: she told me that she will marry me.
From the day I understood things around me,
I saw my Amma and Appa staying apart throughout their marriage.
It’s because of the work and the decisions they took.
But the things I daily underwent in my childhood had sowed seeds to want a person for myself even before I was seven years old.
I haven’t dated anyone and haven’t proposed to anyone if I have no intentions to marry them.
Maybe my childhood impressions about marriage when I didn’t know anything, and less exposure to the outer world made my recovery super tough!
No one is perfect.
A relationship is not for time-pass or to fulfilling your needs.
Don’t control your partner in any way.
Get out if you find that the other person is toxic; it won’t lead to marriage.
After watching the trailer several times, I drowned in this song with such depth of meaning.
Doobey – https://youtu.be/6eGCi4SVy94
These are my favourite scenes in this song.
1. Zain adores Alisha when she is teaching Yoga to him.
2. They do Yoga happily together, and Alisha smiles gorgeously.
3. Both gets witty smiles while texting each other. They got addicted to each other for sure!
4. Zain kisses Alisha’s hand passionately while driving.
The last time I took that person was to Mahabalipuram, and the person very well knew this would be the final meeting and the D-day.
On the way, I asked, why didn’t you hold my hand like you always do and the reply was I didn’t feel like doing it today.
I felt uncomfortable and couldn’t drive.
The place is more than 60 km from our place, and I openly asked, please hold my hand. But that person didn’t.
I understood things were not good, and I kept asking until we arrived at the place.
On the way back, I didn’t do anything.
To my huge surprise, she tightly held my arm, firmly within hers throughout the way back to the hostel.
It was hard for me mentally because she behaved completely different while visiting that place.
She held my hand super tight so that I couldn’t drive.
This is the last beautiful memory and moment of ours.
When I was just seven years old, I imagined that I wanted my life with my person holding her hands all through our entire life.
One day while crossing roads, that person held their father’s hand, and the father looked at that person in shock.
She said it got a habit to cross the roads holding my hands, and I did that while crossing the road with my father, and he felt strange with that action.
I always make sure she feels safe, and I haven’t let her cross the roads without holding her hands tightly within mine.
Safety is always first, and even during the 2015 Chennai Floods, I risked myself, our car and helped them board the bus to our hometown.
All they did to me was to drown in the memories we cherished together.
I won’t regret the love we had. I just don’t want anyone to undergo the things I have gone through.
Everything Happens For A Good Reason! 🙂
We’re coming back to the main content of this article.
I am happy Alisha found her love with Zain.
But why is Zain lying to Tia? and Alisha to Karan?
Please don’t do such things to anyone who trusts you.
If someone trusts you, you should forever be grateful to have their presence in your life.
“You were asking me if what we have is real?” Zain asks Alisha, and he tells the firm reply, “It is”!
Zain engaged to Tia, so Alisha started to question, will he be with her forever?
Tia asks, “He’s never at home”, and she replies, “Maybe he’s busy”.
Tia started to feel Zain was not around her, which was upsetting.
Between Tia and Alisha, Zain is struck.
Things need to be sorted out before it leaves their hands.
Two hard truths are shown as texts in the trailer:
Some Lies We Tell Others.
Some We Tell Ourself.
A lie is a single syllable word that can easily shatter the universe you were building to live with your partner.
Don’t hide anything, be frank, don’t keep secrets, and accept if you have made any mistakes.
The right person will accept you with your flaws, but you shouldn’t repeat them in the future.
In a relationship, you need to be true to yourself first.
If you care for your companion, you will never be able to hurt them.
Alisha asks Zain, “You didn’t feel guilty?”
He replied, “I did what I had to do.”
If I ever get a chance to meet the person who left me when I needed them the most.
I wanted to ask her this one question.
But I know it’s not worth asking her anything.
Some people want temporary happiness, and some want to see their companion happy throughout their life.
Make it clear what you want out of the relationship.
Don’t use others as objects and play with their feelings and emotions.
Beneath Every Lie Is A Secret.
The moment you framed the first secret, you have lost them completely. You have lost a person who trusted you so much and wanted to lead a life with you.
Tia gets angry at Zain, “You’re doing it for yourself. Bloody selfish”, after knowing about Alisha and Zain.
Everyone is selfish when it comes to their happiness.
Some even ignore there is a world outside.
But never hurt another person for your happiness.
Whatever you wish to do, say it directly to the other person.
Hurting others by saying the truth is far better than,
betraying/cheating them in the name of love/friendship!
I hope this movie will show the depth of:
do not lie to your partner or have secrets,
be clear and transparent about what you expect.
I really can’t wait for the movie.
I should stop taking resembles of each movie with that of my life.
Happy Valentine’s Day, in advance.
I don’t believe in this celebration.
Stay happy together to all committed folks.
Dear singles, your companion will meet you soon in any way.
If you’re in your transition period of anything, trust me, you’re going to witness the best version of yourself soon. Please don’t lose HOPE!
Be kind and support others. Spread happiness and positivity!
Happy Reading! ^_^
Domain Rubendhrah 